My intent was not to make me seem better than you at all, I was talking about my character because I thought you were enjoy her :/ encouragement for making older awesome ladies? Hoping that maybe I could this potential character of yours come to be developed. 'hey our ladies could pal around and be awesome'?

Also I was not making a judgement call on you, I was trying to point out how it sounded to me, and trying to get clarification.